What Movies Are Best for Those Living with Dementia?
Best Movies for Dementia Patients
Just because your loved one is diagnosed with dementia doesn’t mean his or her life must come to a stop. Many people living with dementia continue to live full lives for years after their diagnosis, doing the things they love most.
While some activities become harder to do as dementia progresses, simple indoor activities like watching a movie or TV show are accessible at almost every stage of the illness, making this a go-to activity for many caregivers and their loved ones.
In addition to their accessibility, movies are entertaining and inspiring. They transport us to another time and place. They teach us, make us laugh, cry and, most importantly, they tell a story. Stories are the universal language. We each have a story, and our stories connect us to one another. Even if memory is declining, someone living with Alzheimer’s or dementia can typically access their long-term memory. They remember the early stories of their lives. This is why movies can be such an enriching experience—they remind us of our own stories as we watch someone else’s.
How to Choose a Movie for Your Loved One with Dementia
If you’re not sure what movie you should watch with your loved one who has dementia, consider the following:
Choose something you know they like.
Rather than picking the latest blockbuster choose one of your loved one’s favorite movies, especially if it’s a favorite from their adolescence or young adulthood, a time of their life they remember better than the recent past. If you’re not sure what their favorite movie is, simply ask! This in and of itself is a great conversation starter with your loved one.
Consider memory associations.
Movies are connected to our memories. We remember when and where we watched them and how they made us feel. What movies are associated with positive memories for your loved one? Maybe they saw “The Wizard of Oz” with their mom so the classic always reminds them of her. Maybe “Singin’ in the Rain” is the first movie they saw in the theater, so the musical takes them back to that magical experience. Choose something your loved one has a positive memory association with.
Avoid too much violence and death.
Avoid movies with a lot of violence or death. These can be disturbing for anyone, especially those who are living with dementia.
Avoid complex plots and storylines.
According to Dr. Hilda Hayo of Dementia UK, avoid movies with overly complex storylines. These can confuse your loved one and make the movie experience less enjoyable, causing them to lose interest and want to leave.
Choose something you can enjoy together.
Make movie-watching a social experience for your loved one. Watch the movie with them. Don’t turn the movie on and walk away. Choose a movie you would both enjoy and could chat about afterward. Social engagement is crucial for those who are living with dementia, so consider a movie a social activity.
Avoid movies that are too long.
Dementia can affect your loved one’s attention span. They may not be able to sit through a three-hour film. Choose something that is under two hours, or if it’s a movie they love like “The Sound of Music,” which is nearly three hours long, watch half of it one day and the other half the next.
Try a musical or nature documentary.
Experts recommend nature documentaries and musicals as ideal movie choices for those living with dementia. The brain processes music differently, so those living with dementia are often able to remember their favorite songs even during the advanced stages of the disease. Musicals also encourage interaction as participants can sing along, which, according to experts, is good for those living with dementia and helps them connect with other people during the movie.
Nature documentaries such as “March of the Penguins” and “Planet Earth” are engaging choices, according to this memory care facility, because they are easy to follow, entertaining and relaxing.
The Best Moves for Dementia Patients
The following movies (or documentaries) are broadly recommended for those living with dementia or Alzheimer’s:
The Sound of Music
Singin’ in the Rain
Mama Mia
March of the Penguins
Planet Earth
It’s a Wonderful Life
Going to the Movies with Someone with Dementia
If your loved one is physically able, consider going to see a movie at a local theater. Some theaters even offer dementia-friendly screenings of classic movies or inclusive screenings for those with disabilities. Contact your local Alzheimer’s Association chapter to see if they know of any options like this in your area.
When going to the movie theater with your loved one, consider the following tips from this dementia care nurse:
Whether going out to the movies or watching one at home, movies can be a great tool for connection for you and your loved one, connecting you through story and through memory.